What is the Coming Out?
Every gay man has it, but everyone has a different look and will answer the question a little differently. Today we know that gayness is not the result of education, role models or any kind of experience in the course of life, but is simply innate. It is also clear today that a person’s sexual orientation cannot be changed. You can live against your own orientation and it is possible that you may not even notice this for a while. But nothing in the world can make a straight guy or a straight guy. Many gays look back at their adulthood and realize that they have shown signs of their predispositions since childhood, but in childhood and early adolescence many boys and the people around them do not notice anything of it.
Coming out is now the process in which homosexuality, as it were, that lies dormant in a person, comes to the surface and can help the affected person to lead a happy, self-determined life.